You just discovered the texts, the secret accounts, the years of lies, or the full-blown affair. Your world shattered in a single moment, and now you’re carrying rage, shame, nightmares, obsessive thoughts, and a body that feels like it no longer belongs to you.
I help betrayed wives move from merely surviving the discovery to actually healing — whether you eventually stay in the marriage or leave it.
This is your space. You do not have to protect him, defend him, or “get over it quickly” for the kids or the ward. In our sessions you can:
• Say the ugliest, angriest things out loud without being judged or corrected
• Stop the constant movie reel in your head (triggers, intrusive thoughts, hyper-vigilance)
• Reclaim your body, your sexuality, and your self-worth after betrayal trauma
• Figure out what you actually want long-term — reconciliation or separation — without pressure from bishops, family, or well-meaning friends
• Learn boundaries that hold (and how to enforce them even when he cries, love-bombs, or threatens to leave the Church)
This is trauma work, not just “marriage counseling.” We use evidence-based betrayal-trauma models (APSATS-trained concepts, EFT) combined with gospel-friendly principles when that feels right for you.
Most betrayed spouses I work with start feeling like themselves again between sessions 6–12. Many choose to stay and rebuild; many choose to leave with their dignity intact. Either way, you get to stop feeling crazy and start feeling whole.
100% confidential. Your husband will never have access to what you say here. Evening and Saturday appointments available. Texas telehealth only.
You’ve carried this alone long enough. When you’re ready, book a first session — no obligation to bring him or tell anyone. This one is for you.